Category: Let's talk
Ok, so I know this isn't my news and views stuff that your all use to. But here goes. What is it that someone could do or say on a first date that would guarantee that you would never give them a second date? For me if your too loud despite my suttel requests to tone it down or not being able to use your inside voice, that would be a date killer. Or if you order something crazy and expect me to pay for it after not touching it. There is no way I am taking you out again.
Being loud and obnoxious can be a date killer. Also getting disgustingly drunk. I like a guy to be interested, but not to try to mull me and slobber all over me on the first date. Talking on his cell phone during a large part of our date would be a date killer too. I'm sure I'll think of more later.
hmmm, what if they cook for you, and you won't even try it? huh? heheheheh smiles
Erm, what if they talk smack, and you put your body parts on their forehead? Just a hypothetical. grins
A first date killer for me would be someone who is not respectful, is rude/impolite, farting/burping at the table, feeling like they have to cuss to get their point across, and/or wanting to be physical on the first date. Also, another turn-off for me (if this was done on a first date since we're talking about that), would be smoking, drugs, or drinking to get drunk and/or wanting me to participate in that; I would hopefully notice/know about this beforehand so that I wouldn't get involved with the person, but I mean if I didn’t. I didn't think of the talking-on-the-cell-phone one, but yeah, that might be one too. I would understand if it was important, but not constantly or a casual phone conversation during or throughout the date.
Fella's speak up what do you all think as well. A friend of mine told me that if her date told her he was by sexual she's make him walk home. She also said that he must be the one to drive. Even if it's her car he's gotta drive. Here is the big one that I didn't know. She will never go out with a man a send time if he orders before asking her to order first. That was a new one on me.
Getting slobbering drunk on a date, moving way way way too fast with kissing/foreplay/etc., not having a sense of humor, blabbering on about emotional negativity, if it's a blind date (pardon the non-intended pun) having nothing whatsoever in common.
m me won't even go there. hehehe smiles
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I think it's been covered. Cell phones (unless super important), getting drunk, super physical stuff... another one for me would be if he constantly talked about himself during the whole date... that would kill it
Um, yeah. If the guy only talks about himself the whole entire date, I don't want to see him again. LOL. That's one selfish bastard. And casual cell phone conversations on a first date? Um ... no. Especially not if we're out at dinner somewhere.
Poor personal hygiene would turn me off and also not want to take him out a second time. If I notice the horrid stench, then people around me will notice it. If he doesn't care enough to make a conscious effort to make himself socially presentable, forget it. LOL. Major SLOB! Don't wanna know what he's like intimately.